Friday, 25 July 2014
Sunday, 1 June 2014
Mera joota hai Japani ..(Song in my voice)
My second song..I recorded in a studio 8 years back...
https://soundcloud.com/amit-dixit-2/mera-juta-hain-japani-by-amit
https://soundcloud.com/amit-dixit-2/mera-juta-hain-japani-by-amit
शायरी by me !!!
*आपकी हर नब्ज पे एक नज्म लिखी है हमने,
शायरी की कसम आप बहुत खूबसूरत हो
*तेरा नहीं है तो क्या गम है "अमित" ;
शायरी की कसम आप बहुत खूबसूरत हो
*तेरा नहीं है तो क्या गम है "अमित" ;
बक्त ही तो है, बदल जाता है .
*सारा जहाँ खोके ये नाजिल हुआ " अमित "
*सारा जहाँ खोके ये नाजिल हुआ " अमित "
सारा जहाँ बाकी रहा पाने के लिए.
Saturday, 31 May 2014
Tuesday, 6 May 2014
Thoughts which haunted me (Quotes)
A Quote is a thought with profound meaning and Universal acceptability .Below I am writing few of my thoughts which I got either during meditation or through my day to day life experiences. I am not a philosopher so universal viability is not guaranteed :-) :-) .
# I believe ,Success should not be measured in inches ,Rupees, Degree or family background. It should be measured by the size of one's thinking.
# People who are not enough courageous and do not have better words to convey their message often found abusive.
# Even a murderer has points to justify his act. But does it mean he done a rightful act ?? No..Ofcourse Not..Most of us are always think that we are right in our perception .But if all of us are right then why moral values of our society degrading day by day ? Why wrong things are happening in our society ?..Answer is simple ..somewhere we are WRONG in our perception.
# No one in this world deserve hatred...one can be innocent,ignorant,arrogant or diverted ..but still he deserve love. One can be punished and even be killed in a war,but cant be hated ...everyone represents the surroundings in which he lived..The only thing that binds everyone in a rope is Love.
# Big heart doesn't looks like a big banglaw...it project itself by its deeds.
# Differences are only at branches,at leafs of a tree .At the trunk all merge in to The One.
# I believe ,Success should not be measured in inches ,Rupees, Degree or family background. It should be measured by the size of one's thinking.
# People who are not enough courageous and do not have better words to convey their message often found abusive.
# Even a murderer has points to justify his act. But does it mean he done a rightful act ?? No..Ofcourse Not..Most of us are always think that we are right in our perception .But if all of us are right then why moral values of our society degrading day by day ? Why wrong things are happening in our society ?..Answer is simple ..somewhere we are WRONG in our perception.
# No one in this world deserve hatred...one can be innocent,ignorant,arrogant or diverted ..but still he deserve love. One can be punished and even be killed in a war,but cant be hated ...everyone represents the surroundings in which he lived..The only thing that binds everyone in a rope is Love.
# Big heart doesn't looks like a big banglaw...it project itself by its deeds.
# Differences are only at branches,at leafs of a tree .At the trunk all merge in to The One.
Monday, 28 April 2014
Kejriwal and his Krishna Connection..
Even a
murderer has points to justify his act. But does it mean he done a rightful act
?? No..Ofcourse Not..Most of us are always think that we are right in our
perception .But if all of us are right then why moral values of our society
degrading day by day ? Why wrong things are happening in our society ?..Answer
is simple ..somewhere we are WRONG in our perception. Before making any
decision about Kejriwal we should reconsider our perception.
In era of
Mahabharata Krishna was called by korwaa’s and their supporters as KALA,
DHONGI,KAPTI ,CHHALIYA,CHARWAHA ,KALUTA and yes BHAGODA (after fight with
kaal-yawan).At that time very few could understand Krishna as God or His way of
working. But now We know who he was. I am not to put Kejriwal at God’s place
but One shouldn’t have any problem if I make a comparison in a similar happening.
Now a days
a section of society abusing Kejriwal using words like
Chor,Dhongi,Kapti,Khujliwal and yes BHAGODA too .Krishna ran from the war to
finish it fast . He ran towards a cave
where Muchkund had been sleeping.He Tricked and killed Kal-yawan.To devastate
corruption fast Kejriwal too tricked sometime. And people started calling him
as Bhagoda.This is the tendency of people they can be diverted easily by wicked
ones.I believe one day people will realize importance of Kejriwal.
In present
political scenario animosity between Modi’s supporters and Kejriwal’s
supporters is based on perception . Appeasement policy of Parties is reason behind Modi
wave.For the case of Bangladesi
intruders, Support of CM of J&k Umar
Abdullah to Dividing forces And Appeasement
policy of parties Modi can be a better
Option But again he can’t fight with Corruption .I found Kejriwal a
better option to fight with corruption.
Next post:
Women :The Ultimate Power
Friday, 18 April 2014
तुम क्यो उदास हो...
दूर हो मुझसे परंतु ,फिर भी मेरे पास हो ,
ए मेरी जाँ ,तुम क्यो उदास हो
आवागमन तो नित्य है,
संयोग है वियोग है,
तुम ही तो मेरी खास थी ,
तुम ही तो मेरी खास हो;
दूर हो मुझसे परंतु ,फिर भी मेरे पास हो ,
ए मेरी जाँ ,तुम क्यो उदास हो
बारिश की फुलझड़ी से है ,
चकोर को भला क्या काम ?
शबनम की बूंद सी सदैव,
तुम्ही मेरी प्यास हो;
ए मेरी जाँ ,तुम क्यो उदास हो
स्वप्न मे या जाग्रत ,
क्षण् -क्षण् शनै -शनै ,
अनवरत जो बह रही है ,
मेरी जीवन श्वास हो ;
दूर हो मुझसे परंतु ,फिर भी मेरे पास हो ,
ए मेरी जाँ ,तुम क्यो उदास हो
Next Blogs:: 1) Historical Significance of Arvind kejriwal.
2) Woman: The Ultimate Power
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Friday, 4 April 2014
The Divine Love....
love in this world is not Perfect and error-free. It is the reason for its side effects. It looks that it is just an attempt by God to make people come together and to take care of each other. God intentionally left a room for its decay so that people would search for ultimate divine love. In divine love, love for any living entity and love for God is inseparable. Discrimination of sex melted. This love is Love with detachment , a perpetual Bliss.
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Friday, 28 February 2014
Caste System : Revelation of The Truth
"Brahmanas, ksatriyas, vaisyas and sudras are distinguished by their qualities of work, O chastiser of the enemy, in accordance with the modes of nature."(Bhagvad Geeta,Chapter 18, Slok 41)
The
original Idea of Varna system was step wise step elevation
of The man from ignorance to Salvation.In Vedik
period a man was free to choose a work according to his nature ,his Prakrati,his Jati i.e his Varna and His Karma,Not by birth. Person had to choose a karma or varna according to his nature and work honestly believing he is working for God.In this way he could get qualities of different varnas then he should work according to his new Prakrati i.e varna.Being in any Varna is not important,Important is this you should work always thinking that you are working for God .
Every man has 3 Gunas i.e Satt,Rajj and Tamm in different proportions ,So every man has qualities of all the 4 Varnas. But he had been known according to the Guna that is dominating in him.This system ran successfully thousands of year. People in Brahman Varna used to get honor from other races.Kshtriyas were also very respected because they are the rulers .Due to this successors of Brahmana’s and kshtriya’s started thinking themselves superior to the other two races (basically Sudras were the victims).They repeatedly started mentioning other races low and vile .As passage of time other races mainly Sudras(because they were serving others ) started thinking themselves low and weak. This is called Hypnotism ,If you repeatedly call someone low and vile, he start thinking so and then become the same.
Sudra:
Every man has 3 Gunas i.e Satt,Rajj and Tamm in different proportions ,So every man has qualities of all the 4 Varnas. But he had been known according to the Guna that is dominating in him.This system ran successfully thousands of year. People in Brahman Varna used to get honor from other races.Kshtriyas were also very respected because they are the rulers .Due to this successors of Brahmana’s and kshtriya’s started thinking themselves superior to the other two races (basically Sudras were the victims).They repeatedly started mentioning other races low and vile .As passage of time other races mainly Sudras(because they were serving others ) started thinking themselves low and weak. This is called Hypnotism ,If you repeatedly call someone low and vile, he start thinking so and then become the same.
Brief Description of 4 Varnas:
Sudra:
a)Less spiritual awakened .
b) Man who serves others for pay(salary) : people
working in any company irrespective of their posts whether he is worker
,supervisor manager or General manager they all belongs to this category.
c)Social activists: People attached with
NGOs , NFOs and working for social welfare comes in this category.
d)Proletariat: people who earn their bread
by hard work ,illiterate comes in this category.
So doing
job in a company is bad?..doing social services is bad? Working in fields in
bad?..if you have an affirmative(i.e yes) reply then yes..considering ourseleves Sudras
or calling someone Shudra is bad.
Vaisya:
a)More spiritual awakened then Shudras.
b)People
who own a business,shopkeepers and farmers come in this category.
Kshtriya:
a)more Spiritually awakened than vaisyas but less then brahmanas.
b)A man who fight to right
wrongs , our soldiers and rulers i.e Prime minister,chief ministers,MLAs etc
belongs to this category.
Brahmana:
a)Most spiritually awakened.
b)True preachers ,teachers
,saints ,philosophers etc belongs to this category.
An Example:
To understand Basic concept of above 4 Varnas lets see an example of a company.A person with an
engineering degree can work at the post of engineer.He can not directly become a
Manager or General manager. He can have knowledge or a MBA degree and then he
can be promoted.A person with an MBA degree can become Ass. Manager or Manager
directly but not General manger or CEO of the company. Again a person
who is only Matriculate, can join as casual worker or as a supervisor and after
getting knowledge and necessary degree he also can reach to the post of CEO.Promotion
to a higher post is a step by step process.If people on higher posts like CEO
or manager start thinking other employees Low and vile then it is a mistake of
those people not of this PROCESS step wise step elevation.
Case Of Untouchability:
Do you ever think how
Untouchability born in our society??..let us see…If a person wash his own toilet
then other members of his family do not touch him at that time.Even he is not
allowed to touch any thing until he finishes his work and takes a bath.People
of Balmeekis(Bhangis) were working to wash Toilets (Pakhanas) of other castes .They used
to collect all the shit in a bucket(Tokari) and then through it to somewhere
else. Balmeekis were Indulge in the work of shit that’s why people started to
avoid touch them and then it became a social ritual of the society.One other
reason was that Balmeekies were involved in the business of Pigs .An animal that
is considered most dirty animal as it eats Shit of the people.People
who were indulge in the business of died animals also became victim of this
RITUAL.And after passage of time they known as Chamaar i.e Charm(skin)-Kaar(to
work with).
What to do???
1)Automatic toilets should be compulsory
in every village in which still Balmikees lift others Shit.
2)Balmeekies should not do
business of Pigs. Government should make firms for pigs so that we can get
essentials things from pigs to compensate crises .
3)Chamaars should also leave
their ancestors business and it should be under custody of government.
4)Balmeekies and Chamaars should
improve their life style in the sense of their livelihood and locality that is
often found very filthy.
5)Special education programs should
be commenced for these people.
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Thursday, 27 February 2014
Me, My Stammering And TISA
I have been attached with Tisa since last one year.When I joined Tisa I came to know about concept of Acceptance.It was very difficult for me to accept my stammering from which I had been a life long Animosity and I tried to surmount through out my life.I argued with some of senior members of Tisa(I still feel guilty and smile at my immaturity) about concept of acceptance.The concept of Acceptance is profound, it takes some time to understand.
Before joining Tisa I had some knowledge of speech therapy techniques but by those techniques I never became free from fear of stammer.And that could be done only by acceptance.Sometime I get a feeling that I am just one year old (J) ,because one year ago I had no planning for future ,I wasted 20 years of my life only thinking that first I will cure my stammering and then world will see real Amit (oops) .I was alive but not lively.
After joining Tisa I met with fellow PWS like Pramendra,Sikander sir etc and I learned so many things from them and I realized that there is no recognizable connection between success and stammering.
Positive side of stammering in my life
Sometime I imagine my life as a Non-stammerer.If I were a Non-stammerer I wouldn’t have met Sikander sir ,such a wonderful and knowledgeful person.I wouldn’t have met friends like Vishal,Jitendra,Vishnu and so on.I could never have known about Brahmakumari’s and Vipaasana that changes meaning of my life.I found myself a bit more rational and sensible{others can better judge me :-) }Honestly sometime I found stammering boon for me.I have not very good writing skills please pardon me for grammatical mistakes.
Happy Diwali in advance to all Tisa family members.:-)))
Amit dixshit
Noida,U.P
amitdixit_009@yahoo.co.in
amitdixshit@gmail.com
Wednesday, 29 January 2014
आज और कल...
My first poem,I have ever written..
आज मुस्किल में हूँ
तो आज बुला लो
आज मन जाऊंगा
तो आज मना लो
आज पानी है मेरी सूखती इन आंखो मे
थोड़ा पानी मेरे बदले मे बहा लो
आज पढ़ रहा हू मैं सभी हालातो को
आज देखता हू मैं सभी सौगातों को
सोचता हू की मेरा क़ौन है और क़ौन नहीं
आज अपना जो बनाना है बना लो
Monday, 27 January 2014
Let us MaKe Ourselves a BRAND
“A brand is a name given to a product and/or service such that it takes on an identity by itself.”
Branding of a person or a PWS?..something queer??..actually Considering a person as a BRAND is not a new concept.Sachin Tendulkar,Mahendra Singh Dhoni ,Amitabh Bachchan etc, they all are brands .They are known due to their some specific qualities. If we talk about products ,colgate, Emoform ,products of Haldiram etc, are known due to their specification in their respective fields.
Some Brands in TISA.
J.P Sir :- He has wonderful communication skills and body language.He is master of Bouncing technique. He is a great leader.He is super cool and confident.He is All India Coordinator of TISA.
Sikander Sir:- Very cool and calm nature.Spiritual person,Expert of meditation techniques.He is always helpful to everyone.His presence increase value to our meetings.He is one of the founders of Tisa.
Pramendra:- I found him most confident guy in Tisa family whom I met.He is a brilliant example of “How to speak confidently with stammer”.He is a great host.He always come with a written and well structured Agenda in the meeting.His positive waves inspire others.
Vishal Gupta: - A very creative person. He uses technology at its best. He always wear a sweet smile on his face.He always take initiatives .He is founder of Google hangout for stutters and consistent since more that 18 months.He is a great singer.
Amit Singh Kushwaha:- Amit ji has great writing skills. He is known due to his well structured and inspirational post written in Hindi. He is a nice human being too. He is editor of quarterly magazine SAMVAAD. He is one of the admin of Tisa blog.
Akashdeep Rayat:- He is a great classical Singer.He has excellent communication and presentation skills. His body language is unique and awesome. He has a mesmerizing smile. He is a deep thinker.
Sachin Sir: What I can say about him..I have no words. He is just SUPER MARKET that contains all BRANDS or qualities of brands. He is main founder of TISA.
I mentioned here few people who are known to me well. All members of our TISA family have some specific qualities. Some are experts and some are working on it.
A NEW IDEA:-
I was thinking that we can have a button on our Blog as “TISA BRANDS.” We will put those PWS in this PAGE who are known to our TISA family due to their specific skills in any aspect. It will inspire others to work on their skills and to develop some new and unique skills,So that they also can have space in that PAGE( i.e Tisa brands).We will review this PAGE every QUARTER. If a BRAND that has increased some of its skills we will update it. And if a new BRAND come in to attention, we will add him to that page. Coordinators of different SHGs will inform admin of TISA about new ARRIVALS and UPDATES.
Looking toward views of our friends on this interesting looking Idea.:-) :-)
Some Brands in TISA.
J.P Sir :- He has wonderful communication skills and body language.He is master of Bouncing technique. He is a great leader.He is super cool and confident.He is All India Coordinator of TISA.
Sikander Sir:- Very cool and calm nature.Spiritual person,Expert of meditation techniques.He is always helpful to everyone.His presence increase value to our meetings.He is one of the founders of Tisa.
Pramendra:- I found him most confident guy in Tisa family whom I met.He is a brilliant example of “How to speak confidently with stammer”.He is a great host.He always come with a written and well structured Agenda in the meeting.His positive waves inspire others.
Vishal Gupta: - A very creative person. He uses technology at its best. He always wear a sweet smile on his face.He always take initiatives .He is founder of Google hangout for stutters and consistent since more that 18 months.He is a great singer.
Amit Singh Kushwaha:- Amit ji has great writing skills. He is known due to his well structured and inspirational post written in Hindi. He is a nice human being too. He is editor of quarterly magazine SAMVAAD. He is one of the admin of Tisa blog.
Akashdeep Rayat:- He is a great classical Singer.He has excellent communication and presentation skills. His body language is unique and awesome. He has a mesmerizing smile. He is a deep thinker.
Sachin Sir: What I can say about him..I have no words. He is just SUPER MARKET that contains all BRANDS or qualities of brands. He is main founder of TISA.
I mentioned here few people who are known to me well. All members of our TISA family have some specific qualities. Some are experts and some are working on it.
A NEW IDEA:-
I was thinking that we can have a button on our Blog as “TISA BRANDS.” We will put those PWS in this PAGE who are known to our TISA family due to their specific skills in any aspect. It will inspire others to work on their skills and to develop some new and unique skills,So that they also can have space in that PAGE( i.e Tisa brands).We will review this PAGE every QUARTER. If a BRAND that has increased some of its skills we will update it. And if a new BRAND come in to attention, we will add him to that page. Coordinators of different SHGs will inform admin of TISA about new ARRIVALS and UPDATES.
Looking toward views of our friends on this interesting looking Idea.:-) :-)
Monday, 6 January 2014
Chand Si Mehbooba ho...
Guys It is my first song I ever recorded in a studio with music ...
https://soundcloud.com/amit-dixit-2/chan-si-mehbooba-by-amit-dixit
https://soundcloud.com/amit-dixit-2/chan-si-mehbooba-by-amit-dixit
Thursday, 2 January 2014
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
हम नये तुम भी नये , ये सिलसिले नये ;
आया है नया साल और ये काफिले नये;
उन पुराने से गिले सिकवो को आओ भूल जायें,
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
गिर गिर के संभाला है कभी स्थिर वही संसार मे ;
ना कभी विचलित हुआ जो एक अदद सी हार में
मैं महज इंसान हूँ , गलती नियति मेरी रही है;
आओ अपनी गलतियो से आज हम कुछ सीख जायें
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
जीवन कभी तो हार या फिर जीत का संगम रहा ;
ये कभी महफिल या फिर तन्हाई का आलम रहा ;
क्या हुआ हासिल हमे जो कभी आंसू बहाये ,
आओ हर पल आज से हम मुस्कुराना सीख जायें
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
कह रहा इतिहास तोड़ी भ्रांतियाँ भी हैं किसी ने ;
जो लड़ा डटकर अडिग, मोड़ी हैं हवायें भी उसी ने;
तुम ना फूलो से कहो कि,
मुस्कुराकर तुमको देखें ;
तुम ना कलियों से कहो कि,
आकर तेरे पथ मे लेटें;
तुम अलग हो जन्म से,
क्यो कर भला चुपचाप बैठे ;
क्यो भला संभावनायें ,
इस कदर खुद मे समेटे ;
तुम दिखा दो कि तुम्ही से, ये जहा रोशन हुआ है
तुम दिखा दो ,धैर्य साहस का सदा साहिल हुआ है
चीख कर कह दो सभी से देख लो मैं ही "अमित" हूँ;
आओ अपनी हार का हम जीत से परिचय करायें
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
कुछ नया कर के दिखायें..
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Wednesday, 1 January 2014
Stammering ::Disability or Not ????
A section
of stutters agrees being branded as disabled as they are able to benefit from
it, where as other section do not agree as they do not feel good to get
recognized themselves as Disabled.
I am writing this article to support stammering
as disability.Initially I was against to be called as “Disabled.” Then I thought in wider
perspective. I realized that it is needed to declare stammering as disability.We can give a speech on positive thinking ,body language or have an positive idea about our stammering .But when we talk about all these things, we actually talk about a few PWS connected to TISA like SHGs and who are mild stutters.There may not be a recognizable connection between success and stammering but its only true in case of mild stuttering.Let us think in broader perspective. We
are 700-800 PWS, if we combine both TISA and Yahoo PWS group, In which hardly
200 PWS are active. In an estimation about 1 Crore stutters are there in India. If we compare this number to our active
members than its much high. We should take any decision taking care of
majority. The PWS who are not attached to any SHG movement living a mysterious
life thinking that one day someone will come to hold their finger .They are not
so internet friendly to know about our group. If we talk about awareness than
it will take long-long time to do that with our limited resources. In this time
period lakhs of our stutter friends will die in darkness. Making one life
better is making whole humanity better.This attempt is not for reservations
but it is to demand some legislation to stop discrimination in different level.
We should raise our voice infront of government to make some legislation and
protocol to stop discrimination.
A person who has polio in his one leg has given reservation by government .Because He is not able to apply in Army like jobs or in those jobs in which it needs running or walking.If government would not give them reservation then he would be left behind from main stream and it will be violation of human rights too.Even He can do better in jobs like IT ,call center or banks etc still they get reservation.If we consider case of stutters, same conditions are applied to us too..even we get torcherd in so many ways by society that a person with disability other than stuttering wouldn't.Our case is serious than that of the person affected by polio.
Before going to further in this article let us have a look on definition of Disability.
A person who has polio in his one leg has given reservation by government .Because He is not able to apply in Army like jobs or in those jobs in which it needs running or walking.If government would not give them reservation then he would be left behind from main stream and it will be violation of human rights too.Even He can do better in jobs like IT ,call center or banks etc still they get reservation.If we consider case of stutters, same conditions are applied to us too..even we get torcherd in so many ways by society that a person with disability other than stuttering wouldn't.Our case is serious than that of the person affected by polio.
Before going to further in this article let us have a look on definition of Disability.
According to Wikipedia.
“
Disability
is an umbrella term, covering impairments, activity limitations, and
participation restrictions. An impairment is a problem in body function or
structure; an activity limitation is a difficulty encountered by an
individual in executing a task or action; while a participation
restriction is
a problem experienced by an individual
in involvement in life situations. Thus, disability is a complex phenomenon,
reflecting an interaction between features of a person’s body and features of
the society in which he or she lives. Mental disorders (also known as psychiatric or psychosocial
disability) and various types of chronic disease may also qualify as disabilities.”
I If we consider above definition
that stammering can be assumed as Disability.
1)The Americans with
Disabilities Act
The Americans with Disabilities Act
of 1990 (ADA) prohibits employment discrimination against qualified individuals
with disabilities. ADA defines three types of an "individual with a
disability" (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission Technical Assistance
Manual, page II- 3)
- a physical or mental impairment that
substantially limits one or more major life activities. Speaking is one such
major life activity. Others include seeing and hearing.
- a record of such an impairment. This applies
more to individuals with a history of mental illness.
- is regarded as having such an impairment. This protects people who are not substantially limited in a major life activity but are perceived to have such a limitation. For example, you may be capable of communicating, but your employer thinks that you can't communicate.
some other Acts in world that consider stuttering as Disability.
Great Britain's Equality Act 2010,
Australian Disability Discrimination Act 1992 etc.
Some views of
the people are written below on which I replied.
View 1: It
depends on individuals Perception or opinion
either they consider it as
disability or not.
Reply : Let us talks about facts
not about opinions.
2+2= 3,4 or 5 are opinions but
2+2= 4 is a fact .
Any physical or mental
impairment or disorder that is INCURABLE and affects our daily routine work
partially or completely is considered as disability.We can mention percentage
of disability but technically and
logically stammering is disability.
View 2: I dont think declaring it a disability will change the
opinion of the society in any way.Even
after declaration of stammering as disability a PWS will be discriminated.
Reply : How my friend ? Now a
days a company can fire a stammerer giving an excuse that he/she was not
capable of doing the given task.we can not even appeal against it.After
declaring it as disability government will have to make a legislation about
it.After that A PWS can appeal against these type of cases.Although some
companies have their own policy to take care of discrimination cases but they
are not bound to that and most of these policies are only in black and white.
View 3:You said that In so many cases society rejected a stutter as
marriage material due his/her stammer. So a girl will marry
you if you get a disability status?
Reply : look
below an opinion poll among stutter attached with well known non-profit
organisation The India stammering association (TISA). 71.8% stutters consider
stammering as Disability.
Again look another opinion poll non-stutters.62.32 %
normal public ALREADY consider stammering as disability.When a girl marry to a
stutter she already knoe that stammering could not be cured.She know that whom
she is going to marry will stammer throughout his life and vise-versa.
Conclusion is this people already know that stammering is
non-curable so there will be no recognizable effect of declaring stammering as
disability.
View 4: All
u can get from all this is a govt job to be frank,private companies still
wouldn’t hire you or promote you,people will still at laugh.I will favour
spreading awareness and helping PWS like TISA.
Reply: Let me clear ;
1)
All this is neither for
personal benefit nor for Reservation.This all to avoid didcrimination . It will
be our stand in front of government to avoid discrimination.after that it will
be up to government how it made legislation about it.If a PWS get a job then it
will put him in safe side only.Still awareness will be important because
private companies still wouldn’t hire stutters.
2)
We can aware
stutters to have better attitude towards problem.We are not living in ideal
world.We can’t let ourselves on the conscience of others.We can aware people
that a PWS can do better even with his/stutter but it may help only at the
time of hiring.Can you tell me how awareness will help a stutter at the time
when a company will fire or wouldn’t promote him due to his stutter???.At that time only
legislature will work.there are two things one is for stutters to have better
attitude about problem and other to avoid discrimination.TISA helps a PWS to have better attitude about the
problem but we still need a tool to avoid discrimination.
View 5: it is very difficult to predict whether a person stutters
really or is faking it.
Reply : I
think its very easy I have to points to support my statement.
1)Government have to mandate all schools and
colleges and schools from nursery to post graduate level that whenever
any stutter would leave school or college they have to provide him/her a
certificate as a proof about his/her stuttering.Through out his/her studied a
stutter will get atleast 3-4 proofs regarding stuttering.Suppose a
person want to fake to get benefit of stutters than he/she would have to
go to all schools and colleges to get fake proofs,and you know its not possible
at all.Even if someone does that certificates can be easly identified because
they wouldn’t look like 20 years old.
2)There can be very few people who can mimic stuttering that an stutter failed
to recognize.If someone is so good in mimicry than he/she would go to
bolywood to become an actor or mimic :-) To recognize genuine stutters companies
could hire stutters as HR professionals.One other benefit is this it
might increase demand of stutters in industry(what could be better than this).
3)In SC/ST/OBC government provide reservation to all candidates .Are all
candidates poor or not in
mainstream???.To benefit some deserving candidates government give reservation
to all candidates belonging to respective category .Also in our judicial system
a very famous quote is “ 100 culprits could be freed to save one innocent
.“ So the thing is that 100 % transparency is not possible anywhere.We
have to think about stutters who are going to be benefited not about intruders.
View -6
Government
already have burden of reservations .
Reply: Please
read point no. 3 in view-5 reply.If we deserve we should go through.
View:7 I don’t want to be labelled as “Disabled.”
Reply :
That’s it.Almost in all cases a stutter hesitate to accept stammering as
disability because he don’t want to be labelled .We stutter take it to our
Ego.I already explained in view-3 that people already consider as disabled they
already consider stammering non-curable .When a person meet a stutter he never
think that one day that stutter will cure himself(some people suggest us that do this or that it will be cured,but actually those are the who are unaware of stuttering) .I suggest we can understand
stuttering better than others.
Story of a poor man.
A poor man in a village never applied for BPL (below poverty line) card because he do not want to be called as “poor”.He never applied for any government scheme for poor people because he thought that it's better to live in crises than that of being assumed as poor.What do you want to say about that person??..different people can have different opinions about it..but thing is that He just pretended to be rich or contented even he was not.
Same example is true for some of our
fellow PWS.In our TISA group we believe that Stammering is “Incurable” but we
can not ACCEPT it as disability although we often discuss on concept of ACCEPTANCE.Even
technically and logically stammering is a disability but still we pretend to be
alright.
View:8 "I see stammering more as a diversity rather than
a disability. I am more inclined in seeing stammering as a
"transfluency", the term introduced by Cristobal Loriente, a
researcher from Spain, and a pws himself. Transfluency means a speech which is
not fluent. It does not identify it as a speech 'impediment'. Why should we be looking for Sympathy and Pity
rather than looking for recognition and opportunities? I feel it's a step backwards.
Reply: Diversity does not affect someone’s life as stammering does.So we can’t consider it as diversity.If we talk about research of Mr Cristobal Loriente ,then I would like to say that There was no any need of such research in which after devoting so much time a researcher come to a point that ”Stammering means a speech which is not fluent”. Mr Cristobal had to come to any stutter he would have told him that ”Stammering means a speech which is not fluent” .He just given a different name to the stuttering i.e Transfluency.So all his efforts was for to give a different name to the stuttering.?? We are not looking for sympathy or Pity,We are discriminated in different ways in the society, We just need a tool to raise our voice against it.Accepting the truth and raising our voice against discrimination is not a step backward. If still someone consider it I would like to say..”Daag lagne se agar kuch achhcha hota hai to daag achhche hain.”
Reply: Diversity does not affect someone’s life as stammering does.So we can’t consider it as diversity.If we talk about research of Mr Cristobal Loriente ,then I would like to say that There was no any need of such research in which after devoting so much time a researcher come to a point that ”Stammering means a speech which is not fluent”. Mr Cristobal had to come to any stutter he would have told him that ”Stammering means a speech which is not fluent” .He just given a different name to the stuttering i.e Transfluency.So all his efforts was for to give a different name to the stuttering.?? We are not looking for sympathy or Pity,We are discriminated in different ways in the society, We just need a tool to raise our voice against it.Accepting the truth and raising our voice against discrimination is not a step backward. If still someone consider it I would like to say..”Daag lagne se agar kuch achhcha hota hai to daag achhche hain.”
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